#Disillusionment that Could Lead to Depression (#Disillusion-pression? Depr#illusion-ment) unless you Focus on What You Can Do-about-it @CDCgov

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People tell you "There's 'someone out there' (a soulmate, a life-partner) for you!"

And–usually–everyone who goes "out there" (searching for such a mate) eventually finds one. But they find the wrong ones about 42% of the time.

Because 'what people tell you' is ... obviously not "a lie," but not the full truth. The full truth is, "People are out there for themselves too!" Like I hear when looking for 'advice on picking up lovers in bars-&-clubs'; you go out TO HAVE FUN, and your partner (who's out there 'to have fun' as well) will join you if you are 'fun.'
    You've got to focus 'what "everyone is out there for" as-well-as-you'
  • along with Fun, they're also out there looking for
  • a Secure Future
      • (you show them you have in store by
    • buying them expensive drinks & snacks & 'gifts' (occasionally fellow customers will be selling flowers-etc.)
    • wearing expensive clothes & expensive jewelry & expensive accessories
    • maybe showing them your expensive car with expensive hardware attached ...)
  • ... other things (Thrills, etc.)
That's the positive stuff you can focus on after getting past the disillusionment that 'there's no one out there "just to make sure you have what you're looking-for."'

'That word' (below-hyperlinked to ) is built on an even-deeper source ... something crucial that firms the foundation upon which our lexicon stands .
The word “Disillusionment” is built of “Dis- + #Illusion + -|ment.”
"Illusion" is built on words that mean "|At, Upon + to Play (Ludicrous)" ( |Deceptive Appearance).
That's okay for most people, but I (and several others in a condition much worse than my own) can't go 'out there!' (... and this was true before the big pandemic shutdown ... I mean, we can go out there; but (at least in 'urban sprawl'-areas like OKC) we can't 'get' anywhere unless someone 'takes' us!)

And when we're 'taken' out there, we appear to be 'less than worthy of companionship.'

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