Yes, the psychologist explains the 'well-meaning but #hurtful' phrases in a vlog you can get to through 'the emboldened link(s)' below; but first–after a mention of the free mining-software (giving us free Bitcoin in exchange for energy we're wasting anyway)–I want to teach you about those words. And I find you understand words better if you see 'the words at their base' (then going on to look at the words at those words' bases, then the words at those words' bases, etc.-etc. ad infinitum into their Foundation)
The word “Hurt” is built on ancient words that mean "to |Ram, Strike, |Collide with, Run at, |Knock, Dash against, |Crash into, |Rush, |Bump into, Stumble."
#Hurts #Hurting #Hurtfully #HurtTheirFeelings #GetTheirFeelingsHurt
The phrases they share (possibly paraphrased):
- I know you don't want to hear this, but ...
- ... because Everything happens for a reason.
- Whatever doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.
- I'd love to help you, but ...
- Time heals all wounds.
- ... but It's not the WORST thing in the world.
- That's nothing! Don't worry about it!
- Don't say I didn't warn you!
- I've been there too.
- You're strong enough to deal with it.
- I only want what's best for you.
I know that many of these sayings are frequently used (by you, by the psychologist listing them, and even by me), so maybe some of them are just 'used too frequently, making them meaningless' ... hear how she explains them at the bold link above.
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