Again, a lot of 'FOMO' over Marriage ... and my mind comes to the question 'Why do married people deserve their marriages?'
The simple answer (simpler than I can explain ... sort of 'a self-evident truth'): They Don't! But they each give up sooooo much to each other—mainly their 'freedoms to associate with others of the opposite sex' (as if that's something either of them actually had before), but also a lot of 'little freedoms' they choose to give up.
And they think they "earn" the relationship with those 'sacrifices.' But then they don't feel like 'the marriage' is "paying well-enough" for what they're sacrificing, so they quit it after if feels like they've suffered long enough.
'That word' is built on an even-deeper source ... something crucial that firms the foundation upon which the our lexicon stands ...
The word “Deserve” is built on “to Serve Completely” (to be Worthy-of & Entitled-to because of Good service given).
Or maybe I'm looking at it wrong—that's one reason
Our Father God said "It is not good for the man to be
alone": "Because the man'll think he's right until someone else shows
Our Father God said "It is not good for the man to be
alone": "Because the man'll think he's right until someone else shows
him why he's not"—Won't you show me
if I'm right-or-wrong in the comments below?
if I'm right-or-wrong in the comments below?
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